Mining For Love
When you are a gold miner you focus on the gold. You could focus on the dirt as there is certainly much more of it, but that wouldn't make you a gold miner than, would it? You would be a DIRT MINER.
If you are a LOVER than you must focus on the LOVE and make it everything. If you get an OUNCE OF LOVE to celebrate for every TON OF DIRT removed, you are doing well. KEEP DIGGING and don't ever ever ever give up. Don't ever consider the dirt. Don't ever weigh it or quantify it. It is merely the hiding place God uses to place love into.
Make LOVE your everything. Make love your ONE and ONLY pursuit. Be willing to go anywhere and walk through anything to find it. And never, never, never lose focus. You will ALWAYS find what you are focused on. You will ALWAYS find what you are looking for. Make love your everything and YOU WILL FIND IT, everywhere.